For me, the experience is visceral—a flush of heat in my neck and cheeks, a rush of shame, sweaty palms, a quickened heartbeat. These physiological responses surface every time I enter a public restroom. I keep my head down and don’t make eye contact with anyone for any reason. I avoid restrooms when children are present, fearing accusations and confrontation. I am transgender.
There’s something profoundly unsettling about your state legislating where you can and cannot use the restroom. It goes beyond “no women in the men’s room” to “no trans people in public.” That is the desired effect of these laws, and they work.
I no longer participate in public life the way I used to. I don’t attend sporting events or theatre productions, and I only eat out at restaurants with gender-neutral restrooms, a fact I need to research in advance. I find myself keeping money in my wallet that I otherwise would have spent, had I felt welcome in public.
Very few white Americans will understand the intense melancholy of being legislated against, of having your state restrict where you can live, work, and contribute. It certainly depletes my state pride.
So I’m leaving Ohio.
And I’m not alone.
I’m moving with my wife and we are joined by her father, sister, and brother. Our family represents a combined 8 undergraduate degrees and 3.5 graduate degrees leaving the state of Ohio.
This is a concrete manifestation of Ohio’s self-inflicted brain drain resulting from anti-transgender legislation.
While this is our family’s experience, this is a wider phenomenon than just us. The problem with discriminatory legislation (and lack of protections for minorities) is that it increases the cost of living in a certain community relative to other communities. This phenomenon has been studied in Ohio for over a decade, with a survey conducted by researchers at Wright State University revealing that LGBT marriage equality laws, LGBT anti-discrimination employment laws, and LGBT anti-discrimination housing laws, were important factors for college students considering whether to leave Ohio.
Living in a state that legally sanctions discrimination levies significant costs on families, especially considering nearby alternatives. 14 states and the District of Columbia currently have “sanctuary laws,” for transgender people designed to protect access to gender-affirming healthcare services. These fourteen states include Washington, Oregon, California, New Mexico, Colorado, Minnesota, Illinois, New York, Vermont, Maine, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Connecticut, and Maryland.
It can be hard to estimate the number of transgender individuals living in a state. LGBTQIA+ people have concerns around data privacy when disclosing such personal information as gender identity or sexual orientation. Especially given recent concerns around data privacy at the federal level, this data gap is unlikely to close soon.
Generally we estimate transgender people to make up half to one percent of the total population. That means that there could be anywhere from 59,400-118,800 total transgender people in the state of Ohio. According to the Data for Social Progress survey results, 8% of transgender people reported already moving, a potential loss of 4,700-9,500 Ohioans.
An analysis from McKinsey and Company found that cisgender employees make 32% more money per year than transgender employees, even when the latter have similar or higher education levels. Despite the small size of the transgender population and the relatively small impact we have on the economy, many states continue to push anti-transgender legislation. McKinsey’s analysis found that annual consumer spending could actually grow by $12 billion annually following concerted efforts to increase employment and wage equity for transgender people.
Discrimination against transgender people has wide-ranging effects on the economy. For example, a white paper from the Sports, Events, and Tourism Association published evidence from the Texas Association of Business that discriminatory anti-trans legislation could result in an estimated economic loss to Texas’ gross domestic product ranging from $964 million to $8.5 billion.
Despite the promise of economic growth, Ohio has continued to legislate against LGBTQIA+ residents. The evidence shows this will worsen Ohio’s brain drain problem and hamper Ohio’s economy.
Another likely unanticipated effect of this legislation is the self-inflicted brain drain Ohio perpetuates with these laws.
I have a bachelor’s degree from the University of Iowa and many hours of advanced graduate course work from the Ohio State University. My wife has a bachelor’s degree from Otterbein University and is a licensed educator. We both work full-time jobs, volunteer regularly, and contribute essential grassroots support to the homeless individuals in our communities. But we’ve decided Ohio is no longer a place we want to call home, because its laws don’t want us here.
So we are taking our college degrees, my father-in-law, sister-in-law, and brother-in-law in addition to two of our closest friends to Chicago, where Illinois has made it clear that we will all be welcome.
This isn’t just about individual choices; it’s about broader economic implications. Policies that are unwelcoming to certain populations don’t just push out those directly affected—they also drive entire communities to leave. When people relocate, they take their expertise, their purchasing power, and their tax dollars with them.
As we prepare to leave Ohio, I'm keenly aware that our departure represents more than just a personal decision—it's emblematic of a larger exodus that has significant human and economic costs.
Ohio's human capital loss will be Illinois’s human capital gain. I'm moving toward a future where I won't need to calculate the risk of using a public restroom. Time will tell: was the political victory of targeting a vulnerable population worth the cost of driving away educated, productive citizens and their families?